So listen...we know how crazy, busy, and stressful ministry can be sometimes. And we definitely don't have all the answers. But if at all possible, we want to do what we can to serve you and your ministry by making available any of our resources that might possibly be a help to you.

As you scroll down to the Resources section of this page, you'll find three things available for download...
  1. EVENT GUIDE: Parent + Small Group Leader Breakfast. This breakfast is designed to connect parents with their kids' small group leaders - it's an event that's all about giving parents and small group leaders a chance to connect, have some fun, and brainstorm ways to partner together for the sake of influencing their children. If you're looking for a way to kick-start some partnerships between the church and the family in your ministry, try this! We've included all the editable files, instructions, and tips to make it happen. And it's FREE!
  2. EVENT GUIDE: Daughters + Dads Date Night. We are big believers that what happens in the home (between kids and parents) is way more important than what happens at church, at youth group, or anywhere else. So we wanted to put together an event that gave dads an opportunity to take their daughters out on a date built around a special experience and meaningful conversations. We've included everything you need to make this event happen in your ministry context - editable files, instructions, and tips. And, as always, it's FREE!
  3. SMALL GROUP LEADER NOTEBOOK. We give each of our Small Group Leaders a notebook that is packed full of training materials, information on our ministry strategy and philosophy, instructions on what to do in tough situations, and resources that they use on a weekly basis. Check it out, and feel free to take, tweak, and customize anything you'd like for your own volunteer team. And yes, it's FREE too.
As you scroll down to the FAQ's section, you'll also find answers to some of the questions we are often asked, such as how to implement an "orange" strategy (if you're not sure what that is, check out www.whatisorange.com) in middle school ministry, how to recruit and train volunteers, partner effectively with parents, create quality events and programming, and more.

If you would like any more information than what is provided here, just give us a call or send us an email. We'd love to help! We're passionate believers that we are all ONE Church, on ONE team, with ONE goal - and that's to reach every student in our churches and communities with the life-changing Gospel of Jesus Christ. So if any of our stuff can help you accomplish that goal, we'll be pretty happy.

Kenny + Elle Campbell
SHINE! Middle School Ministry
The Chapel at CrossPoint
(716) 631-2636 x262
 


EVENT GUIDE // Parent + Small Group Leader Breakfast
We are serious about the partnership between Small Group Leaders and Parents; this event is a great way to help those connections happen. If you are a youth pastor or work with students, and you would like to use this resource for your ministry...go ahead! Tweak it. Customize it. Take off our logo & info and put yours in there instead. Make it your own! We've included tons of files in this kit, everything you'll need to pull this event off yourself!
Click here to download the .zip file


Make Your Own Giant Angry Birds Game
We recently played "Giant Angry Birds" and posted a highlight video of the game you can watch it here. Since we've posted the video we've been getting a lot of questions about how we did it so we created this resource to help answer some of those questions.
Click here to download the instructions


EVENT GUIDE // Daughters + Dads Date Night
We believe that the influence of parents in the lives of their children far outweighs the influence that a youth pastor, youth ministry, or youth leader could ever have. So with that in mind, we want to elevate the family, empower parents, and help moms and dads cultivate quality relationships with their children. This event was one way for us to help dads make this happen. In this Event Kit you'll find everything thing you need to pull this event off as a family or as an entire ministry. We've not only included a guide to walk you through each step of the planning and prep, but we've also included all of the editable files so you can customize the night any way you'd like.
Click here to download the .zip file


Small Group Leader Notebook
Our Small Group Leader Notebook is a collection of practical tools and resources that we created and give to all of our volunteers. All of these resources are available to any youth pastor or ministry that might want to use them free of cost. Feel free to edit and change anything, put your logo on them and make them work for your specific ministry context. Each of the .pdf and editable Adobe Illustrator files are included in each download:

VOLUNTEER HANDBOOK
This Volunteer Handbook explains the key principles, philosophy, and strategy of our middle school ministry. This is required reading for all of our volunteers.
Click Here to Download

WHAT TO DO IF... HANDBOOK
This is the volunteer's guide to handling just about everything you'll ever encounter while serving in middle school ministry.
Click Here to Download

SMALL GROUP LEADER GOALS
This is a list of realistic goals that we are challenging all of our Small Group Leaders to accomplish during the first half of this school year.
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EVENT SCHEDULE
This Event Schedule includes all Student, Parent, and Volunteer events coming up in SHINE! this school year.
Click Here to Download

QUIET TIME SHEETS
These Quiet Time Sheets are just an option for you to use as your daily quiet time with God. This is just an example of what the sheets look like, we update and print a new sheet every week and make them available to all of our students and volunteers.
Click Here to Download

STUDENT PROFILE SHEETS
Our Small Group Leaders use these sheets to keep a short bio of all of their students and parents.
Click Here to Download

So...what exactly is ORANGE?

The best place to learn more about orange is from the orange masterminds themselves, The reThink Group. But we can give you a quick summary. Orange is simply about partnership. Family (red, symbolizing unconditional love) + Church (yellow, symbolizing the light of Christ) = ORANGE.
 
We believe three things are true...
  1. No one has more potential to influence a child than that child's parent. NO ONE. The influence of a local church or youth pastor can't come close.
  2. But parents aren't the only influence a child needs. There will come a point in time when every child will begin to seek approval, affirmation, and guidance from adults other than their parents. Often, this shift begins to take place in middle school.
  3. Two combined influences will make a greater impact than two influences on their own. This is where ORANGE comes in. We believe the key to seeing children develop lasting faith and Christ-like character is when parents partner with other trusted, Godly adults to help them influence their children. For us, this means parents partnering with their child's small group leaders to have a greater impact together, than either could have alone.

What curriculum do you use?

Throughout our children's, middle school, and high school ministries, we partner with The reThink Group, the creators of the ORANGE concept, and utilize much of their curriculum. In addition to these reThink products, our middle school ministry also utilizes curriculum and teaching resources from 
www.lifechurch.tv, www.simplyyouthministry.com, and more. During the 2010 - 2011 school year specifically, the majority of our series will come from the LIVE curriculum from www.simplyyouthministry.com.


How do you train and develop volunteers?

When new volunteers come on board, they are given the "SHINE! Volunteer Handbook" and the "What To Do If..." how-to manual (both included in the Small Group Leader Notebook in the resource section of this page). We also require all of our volunteers to read a book that we absolutely love called Parenting Beyond Your Capacity, by Reggie Joiner and Carey Nieuwhof. This is their initial training to what we do and how we do it.
 
After that, we help keep our volunteers informed and developing through ongoing training opportunities, including...
  • - Weekly e-mail newsletters full of information, tips, strategies, and encouragement.
  • - Bi-monthly large group training luncheons.
  • - Regular opportunities for volunteers to get together based on the grade level that they work with, have some fun, and give us feedback on how things are going.
  • - A SHINE! Library and reading list, allowing volunteers to continue their personal  development in the areas of spirituality, mentorship, and leadership.

All of our resources are available to you to utilize and customize - if you would like us to send you any of these materials, just let us know.


How do you engage parents in your ministry?

We have actually found that one of the most effective ways to help parents engage with our ministry is to connect them to their child's small group leader. So when it comes to partnering with parents, our highest priority is to equip small group leaders to live out the "orange" vision by seeking to engage the parents of the children in their small group. As small group leaders engage parents and demonstrate a desire to help them influence their children, they are able to help those parents understand the importance of their involvement in their families' lives. 

But aside from that, it is essential that we as a Middle School Ministry reach out to parents directly to help them understand the importance of partnership. Some things we've done or currently have in the works are...

  • - Promoting and providing access to Parenting Beyond Your Capacity (Joiner & Nieuwhof) to all the parents of our students.
  • - Creating a Parent Handbook, to help parents understand how we want to partner with them and why.
  • - Sending out a monthly parent e-mail full of vision-casting, a look at what's going on in SHINE! for the month, helpful information, tips, strategies, and lots of encouragement.
  • - Hosting two Small Group Leader/Parent Breakfasts each school year for parents to meet and engage with their child's small group leader.
  • - Doing Parent Orientations on a few Sunday mornings each school year, where parents can get to know what SHINE! is all about and how we want to help and partner with them.

Do you offer intership programs?

Yes! The program incorporates exposure to the orange philosophy, training in a variety of basic ministry and administrative roles, and opportunities for interns to apply and develop their own unique skills and interests in a ministry setting. In fact, the internship program is customized to the individual based on those specific skills and interests (comunication, music, design, photography, etc.). 

Please email Kenny (kcampbell@thechapel.com) if you are interested.


Do you do special events?

Yes we do! Although special events are not the focus of our ministry strategy (we believe small group interaction is much more important and effective) we do believe it is essential to create fun and memorable events where students can bring their friends and connect with their small group leaders. Some of these events include Game Nights, Wii Tournaments, Spa Days (girls only!), Sports Tournaments (Dodgeball, Basketball, Football), Nerf Wars, Local Service Projects, and maybe even a Japanese Game Show.  

If you're interested in any of the events that we've done and would like to recreate any of these events for your student ministry, let us know - we can supply you with anything useful that we might have - including promotional material, event summaries & checklists, graphic & decor files, or tips that we learned along the way. 


Can I come and sit in on one of your Sunday morning gatherings?
Absolutely!  If you are interested in checking out what we do please contact us and we can set up a date and time for you and/or your team to join us on a Sunday morning or special event. Our Children's Ministry also commonly hosts visiting churches on Sunday mornings - we would love to connect you with them as well.



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